2007/06/17

"Superwoman"

I really love the song "Superwoman by Karyn White".. i really love the lyrics and if i am not wrong there was a Filipino version of it which is "Hindi ako si Darna" and i don`t know who sung the song.. (please leave a message if you happen to know)
Anyway there is a story behind the song for me..
I was into a 3 year relationship before and i felt that i was really like a "Superwoman" that time.. i did everything for that guy because i thought that he is really the one for me. I even sacrificed my own happiness for him. I was not able to concentrate on my studies because i always go out of the country just to be with him (though i am not blaming it all to him because i did it because i like to do it for him, but still i blame him for not even telling me to slow down and concentrate on my studies first)..anyway i even sacrificed on not visiting my family just for him. But still inspite of everything i have done for him he even had the guts to be with another woman. I said it was okay with me and then i gave him up. I thought i was okay but then i realized that i am not "Superwoman" at all.. i still can feel pain, and that i am only human. From there and then i realized that to love you don`t have to be a superwoman it is normal to feel pain and to be hurt. But it is not so normal to give everything, to do everything for the person you love, at least leave something for yourself so that if ever that relatioship won`t work at you`ll not feel that you are so lost like i did. Do not be a superwoman when you love do not think that you can do everything and do not try to do everything, let your partner do some works do.. if you can ask him to be Superman.
Now i am okay.. i am so over him, thanks to him he made me realize that i am human too.. i know that the relatioship did not work because he never tried to be "Superman"...

I hope that someday my "Superman" will come and by then i know that i can be "Superwoman" again ...

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